Tuesday, May 29, 2012

5 Wedding Stationary Ideas



A new campaign within The Letter Project. For further inspiration for wedding stationary, check out Style Me Pretty blog and Brooklyn Bride blog.

1. For the Hipster:




2. A Country Wedding: 






3. A Summer Candy Jar:





4. The Doodler:




5. Straight Talker:

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Slut, And Other Bad Words: What Should Be Reclaimed?



When Rush Limbaugh discussed Georgetown law student, Sandra Fluke, and her testimony to House Democrats supporting mandated insurance coverage for contraception, he chose to label her based on her testimony a “slut” and a “prostitute.” Limbaugh’s word choice infuriated feminists, lawmakers, medical professionals, and women who noted that Fluke’s argument for contraception coverage included non-birth control reasons and that, more importantly, women who do use contraception for such purposes are not inherently sexually promiscuous, irresponsible, or unentitled to their own sexuality.

This reaction to Limbaugh’s controversial word choice also reignited the debate over reclaiming the word “slut” that was most popularized by the 2011 SlutWalk.

The SlutWalk, a response to a Toronto police officer’s offhand comment that “women should avoid dressing like sluts” in order to avoid rape, was a series of rallies worldwide in which “reclaiming, or more accurately, reappropriating the word ‘slut’ is a fundamental cornerstone of the movement.” The SlutWalk created widespread debate among feminists about reclaiming the word “slut” for twentieth century feminism.

The question these debates raise is, what should be reclaimed?

The word “queer” is an example of a largely successful reclamation of a once derogatory word that represented heternormative power structures. Its reclamation in the 1980s resisted the oppressive, homophobic connotations by providing the LGBTQIA community with a much-needed inclusive umbrella term for non-heterosexual and non-gender-binary individuals.

The challenge with reclamation arises when a word has a varied significance across spheres because when one group reclaims it and uses it as an empowering statement, it could potentially reinforce the problematic hegemonies it represents in other groups. For example, “cunt” is still popularly considered a derogatory term for women and social attitudes toward female genitalia, yet some feminists like Eve Ensler of The Vagina Monologues have been trying to reappropriate the word since the 1970s. Forty years later, the word and its power are still undecided upon.

When debating reclamation, advocates need to ask themselves: what about the term or phrase is being reappropriated and why? In the case of “slut,” what does reusing the word do for feminism? Does it have the potential to inspire new understandings of women’s sexuality? Or should there be a new word altogether to signify this attitude? What is there to be achieved in reclaiming instead of discarding any word for a social movement?

Monday, May 21, 2012

Hey Girl: 5 Reasons Why Feminist Ryan Gosling is the Best Thing to Happen to Feminism In A Long Time*


1. It demystifies the angry feminist stereotype by representing a more authentic image of feminism: one that is pop culture-savvy and can have fun with gender justice topics.


2. It reminds us that feminism is still relevant amidst the current War on Women









3. It addresses current feminist topics like the balance between women’s careers and home lives.









4. It challenges the somehow-not-dead-yet narrative of blaming women who are victims of rape for ‘asking for it.’















5. It answers the long unfulfilled question: is it possible to make Derrida funny?  















*In case you missed it. 





Vampires and Heroes and Damsels, Oh My!: The Modern Fantasy and Jungian Archetypes



In the year 2012, the following movies have or will be released: The Avengers, The Amazing Spiderman, The Dark Knight Rises, Mirror Mirror, Snow White and the Huntsman, Dark Shadows, and Breaking Dawn Pt II. The following TV shows are on basic cable: Grimm, Once Upon a Time and The Vampire Diaries.

Why are these old fairy tales, hero plotlines, and fantasies still relevant in 2012?

The repopularization of these legends and tales is perhaps in part due to a nostalgic search for the timeless in a rapidly evolving, tech-savvy culture. Yet what is most interesting about these stories is that people genuinely enjoy them even centuries after their genesis. There is something relatable about these familiar characters and figures.

These recurring figures and images echo what psychiatrist Carl Jung, one of Freud’s students and contemporaries, identifies as archetypes within the collective unconscious. He explains:

“In addition to our immediate consciousness…there exists a second psychic system of a collective, universal, and impersonal nature which is identical in all individuals. This collective unconscious does not develop individually but is inherited. It consists of pre-existent forms, the archetypes, which can only become conscious secondarily and which give definite form to certain psychic contents.”[1]

Jung argues the collective unconscious originates in prehistoric humankind and contains archetypes—mythic symbols common in all cultures and which hold similar significance across communities—that present themselves in dreams, mythology, religious parables, and fairy tales. Common archetypal figures include the shadow, the anima-animus (feminine and masculine qualities), the mother, the child, the maiden, and the wise old man.[2]

Modern fantasies in 2012 access these archetypes and the meaning they hold that is relevant today. The evil queen in Mirror Mirror and Snow White and the Huntsman invokes the animus within all women who represents reason, power, and strength. Michael Caine’s Alfred in The Dark Knight Rises embodies the wise old man who counsels and guides. Dark Shadows’s Dr. Julia Hoffman represents the mother archetype who nurtures with love and ambivalence.

Perhaps, then, the resurrection of fantasy films and shows is not due to the need for escape or for returning to something lost. Perhaps instead it is because, even in 2012, there are mythic elements we will always be able to relate to that helps us better understand our own unconscious and the collective unconscious inherent across cultures.


[1] C. G. Jung, The Archetypes and the Collective Unconscious. (London: Bollingen Series, 1996) 43.
[2] Wilson M. Hudson. “Jung on Myth and the Mythic.” The Sunny Slopes of Long Ago. (Denton, Texas: University of North Texas Press, 2000), 186.

Saturday, May 12, 2012

The Letter Project: The Genius of Penguin Cover Story Postcards


 

These lovely postcards with the covers of classic literature provide the unique opportunity to send both a message from you and the literary canon to family and friends.

Use to share with friends that this last month was the best of times, it was the worst of times. Or explain that while on vacation the sun shone, having no alternative, on nothing new.

Or maybe share sad news-mother died today.

Or perhaps share a reflection on experience-that in my younger and more vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I've been turning over in my mind ever since. Or begin a long epic tale with all this happened, more or less.

Maybe you would like to tell a quaint little story- once upon a time and a very good time it was there was a moocow coming down along the road and this moocow that was coming down along the road met a nicens little boy named baby tuckoo.

Better yet, send a letter to announce a sudden change in name, asking friends to call me Ishmael.

Opportunities abound. Sing in me, Muse, and tell me the story.

Friday, May 11, 2012

30th Anniversary Celebration: Lessons on Global Citizenship in Barbara Cooney’s 'Miss Rumphius'





“When I grow up, I, too, will go to faraway places, and when I am old, I, too, will live by the sea.”
“That is all very well, little Alice,” said her grandfather, “but there is a third thing you must do.”
“What is that?” asked Alice.
“You must do something to make the world more beautiful.”
~~~

In its 30th anniversary year, Barbara Cooney’s 1982 children’s book, Miss Rumphius, continues to share a relevant message of social justice, environmentalism, transnationalism, feminism, and personal existential fulfillment. The book, which was awarded the National Book Award for Children’s Books, tells the story of Alice Rumphius who lives out three things her grandfather tells her she must do in life: travel, live by the sea, and make the world more beautiful.

Miss Rumphius succeeds with the first two in her young adult life; traveling to Egypt, tropical islands, Australia, the Alps, and living in a cottage by the ocean. During this time, she learns to be a global citizen as a pseudo-intellectual librarian, a camel-rider, a small time botanist, Alps climber, and friend of a maharaja. Yet the main conflict of the story revolves around how she will make the world more beautiful. After being bedridden in her older age with back pain in her seaside cottage, she becomes enchanted with the lupines that bloom outside her window in the spring, and she decides to plant lupine seeds around her town when she is well again. The flowers become both an act of renewal after her physical illness and the seasonal winter, and an act of civic engagement.

The story’s deceptive simplicity within the guise of a children’s book does not distract from its significance in advocating for a life of activism, transnationalism, environmentalism, and feminism. As a single woman, Miss Rumphius furthers a legacy of social awareness, engagement with the global community, environmental justice, women’s agency on a global scale, and empowerment that her grandfather had fulfilled before her. Her praxis in making the world more beautiful by planting lupines creates micro level change that inspires macro level ethics at the end of the book when she tells her young niece that she, too, must do something to make the world more beautiful in her life. The niece, our narrator, closes the story saying, “I do not know yet what that can be,” transforming Miss Rumphius’ activism into advocacy for future generations to continue to make the world more beautiful.

Saturday, May 5, 2012

5 Charms



Joseph Campbell, one of the most respected scholars on mythology who popularized the hero’s journey (which inspired George Lucas’s Star Wars), once said:

“The images of myth are reflections of the spiritual potentialities in every one of us. Through contemplating these, we evoke their powers in our own lives.” [1]

For Campbell, myth is a manifestation of symbols and charms that “helps you put your mind in touch with this experience of being alive.” The tradition of wearing charms has been practiced around the world to ward off evil spirits, self-identify with a religious tradition, and represent symbols from mythology. Understanding symbols and charms within mythology and religious folklore is, for Campbell and many others, a means to “seeking an experience of being alive.”

 Three’s a charm, but here are five:

  1. Nazar (Evil Eye): Common in the Middle East and Balkans, the charm wards off the curse of the evil eye.
  2. Horseshoe-In Medieval Europe, the upturned horseshoe used the power of the horned moon to protect against witchcraft.
  3. Four Leaf Clover: In the United Kingdom, the four leaves represent faith, hope, love, and luck.
  4. Wishbone-Originating from the Etruscans, the tradition holds that the wisher who pulls the larger half of the bone will have their wish fulfilled.
  5. Hamsa: In Islam, it represents the hand of Fatima, in Christianity the hand of Mary, and in Judaism the hand of Miriam. It is most commonly recognized as a sign of protection.

[1] Joseph Campbell. The Power of Myth. (New York: Broadway Books, 1988), 207.

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

The Crisis of Gender Representation: Why Is There So Much Press About HBO’s "Girls"?


 
Lena Dunham’s new HBO show, Girls, has only aired three episodes and is already the most Tweeted-about show ever. It has been criticized all over the internet for failing to represent twentysomething women accurately, for glorifying privilege, and for being whitewashed.

To review: In a recent Jezebel article, Madeleine Davies laments, “The show felt oddly alienating, managing to be both too broad and too niche all at the same time.”

Jenna Worthman of The Hairpin writes, “Girls was supposed to be for the people, by the people. It is for people like me… who were hungry for something relatable, something real.” She shamefully admits she likes the show because “It Gets. So. Many. Things. Right” but adds, “I just wish I saw a little more of myself on screen.”

John Cook of Gawker just does not like Girls, opening his first recap with, “Girls is a television program about the children of wealthy famous people and shitty music and Facebook and how hard it is to know who you are.” He also points out that the only person of color in the pilot is "a magical jolly homeless black man."

While some of these critiques of privilege, unrelatablility, and the show’s white monopoly hold strong value, the question is: Why is Girls talked about as if it were a failed manifesto for Generation Y women?

Given the multiple arguments that Girls is problematic because it claims to be a voice of a young, urban generation and instead is crippled from doing so because of its privilege and whiteness, why aren’t critics pointing to other shows with primarily affluent young white characters living in New York City? If this is the criterion for judgment, why not point fingers at How I Met Your Mother, Seinfeld or Friends as problematic representations of race and class? Why is Girls so unrelatable based on its portrayal of privilege and whiteness while these other shows manage to be relatable?

Could it be that this is a crisis of gender representation?

To borrow from literary theorist Edward Said, the “crisis of representation” refers to the anxiety over representing changing objects and entities, from race to genre to time period. Every representation inevitably fails to represent the whole because singular experiences always vary. In the case of Girls, could the large-scale criticism be informed by an anxiety of representing contemporary young women?

This is not a new phenomenon for shows about women. When Sex and The City came out, there was widespread criticism of the show’s representation of thirtysomething women as bourgeois and unrealistic (Carrie’s apartment has been extensively analyzed by real estate agents and it has been determined that, no, neither the fictional $2,800 rent nor the real $9,650,000 price tag are within her journalist price range). What is unique about the criticism of class and race in SATC and Girls is that such analysis has not been popularly applied to characters in Seinfeld or other coed shows.

The show, like nearly every other television show, is about a specific group. Why, then, is there so much pressure on Girls to represent young women on the whole?

More importantly, why is there so much anxiety over representations of women on predominantly female shows?